by Dori Smith
Welcome to the opening of the Wise-Women's Web Site! Thanks to the work of many dedicated volunteers, this site is a result of the success of the Wise-Women's Web Lists. I'm writing this as things are just starting to come together, but I'm already overwhelmed at how much time, creativity, and knowledge has been contributed to make this resource a reality.
Seeing this new site grow has made me think about Wise-Women's beginnings. In 1997, when I joined the list that was the genesis of WW, I was looking for a comfortable place where I could both ask and answer questions. I immediately felt at home; my very first post the day I subscribed thanked someone for a piece of information that I hadn't even known I wanted until I got it.
When that list imploded in early 1999, a group of us frantically emailed back and forth about our loss. I had a under-utilized mailing list server, so I offered to host a replacement. A quick survey was taken among us refugees and the new name "Wise-Women" was agreed upon.
As we've gone on, I've grown to appreciate the Wise-Women name more and more. Wisdom is a goal that we all strive for. People are born with varying levels of intelligence, but wisdom is something that we all have to work towards, our entire lives. And the word "Women" is inclusive--it's not one woman in particular; it's all of us women, together. And we're not chicks, babes, girls, or even grrls--we're women, and we're okay with being women.
On the other hand, I like that while this list is women-centered it's also men-friendly. I don't believe in discrimination of any kind, and a list that didn't allow men would just get filled with men with fake names, pretending to be women so they could eavesdrop on the secrets we were supposedly sharing. Welcoming men on this list keeps those kind of jerks off. The men here are truly unique--it takes a certain kind of guy to want to join a list with "women" in the name, and an even more special kind to want to stick around.
I've re-read a lot of old messages tonight, and a few themes keep showing up over and over:
Personally, I feel like I've provided an empty room, and the list members have brought to it warmth, refreshments, and wonderful conversation. The community has agreed that the time has come to start hanging our works on the walls and I'm proud to be able to provide the space.
To all of you, Wise-Women old and new, welcome!